How big is your obstacle?
When you’re in the middle of a challenge, it can feel massive, like a mountain that would be a challenge to climb. But what if the obstacle isn’t as big as it seems? Sometimes, all it takes is a shift in perspective.
I was reminded of this lesson on a recent trip back to my hometown of Mercer Island, Washington. Growing up, my house was at the top of a hill. Every afternoon, I had to ride my bike up that hill after school. It was steep, so steep that I rode in switchbacks to make it easier! Making it to the top felt like a huge accomplishment as I would glide into my driveway.
But when I visited my childhood home last week, I couldn’t believe what I saw. The hill that once looked so daunting? It was so small! I couldn’t believe what once seemed so big, was now no big deal. Over the years, my perspective had changed dramatically. The good news is—you don’t have to wait decades for a perspective shift.
You can shift how you see your obstacles in these four ways.
1. Change your vantage point. Write your problem down. Then imagine it’s a close friend’s problem. What advice would you give them? Chances are, you’ll be more compassionate and practical than you are with yourself.
2. Zoom out in time. Ask yourself: Will this problem matter in five weeks? Five months? Five years? That simple shift may shrink a problem’s size and power.
3. Seek another perspective. Talk with a trusted friend, mentor, or coach. They may see angles and solutions you’re too close to recognize. Sometimes someone else can show you how the problem isn’t as big as you think it is.
4. Break it down. No matter how daunting the challenge feels, break it into small, doable steps to overcome it. Then, celebrate each milestone along the way. Progress—even tiny progress—creates momentum and confidence.
Your Front-Row Invitation – Obstacles will always show up in life, but they don’t have to keep you stuck in the balcony. Shift your perspective, and you’ll discover they may be much smaller than you think. This week, take one challenge you’re facing and try one of these perspective shifts. It could be the key to moving forward and finding your seat in the front-row.
Your Head Usher,
Marilyn
