Have you ever faced a tough decision and felt stuck, unsure of what to do next? Maybe it was a career move, a personal challenge, or an opportunity that could change your life. In those moments, who do you turn to?
Do you have a mentor you trust? A close-knit group of friends who listen and guide without judgment? A sounding board of people who genuinely want what’s best for you?
If not, it’s time to build one. Because the people you choose to confide in can make all the difference in the decisions you make.
The Power of Trusted Advisors
Having the right people in your corner is essential. The best mentors and friends don’t tell you what to do—they help you see things more clearly. They ask the right questions. They challenge you, not to control your choices, but to help you make the best decision for yourself. But here’s where you need to be careful: Not everyone giving advice has your best interest at heart.
Beware of Unsolicited Advice
There’s a big difference between seeking guidance and being bombarded with opinions you never asked for. Have you ever had someone—who wasn’t asked—tell you what you should do with your life? Be cautious. Because when people impose their unsolicited opinions on you, two things often take root: anger and resentment.
Anger, because deep down, you don’t like being told what to do. Resentment, because now you’re wrestling with advice you never asked for. And the worst part? If you follow their advice and it doesn’t work out, guess who has to deal with the consequences? Not them—you do.
Choose Your Sounding Board Wisely
Instead of letting just anyone’s voice influence your decisions, be intentional about who you go to for advice. Stick to:
✔ Mentors – Those who have walked the path before you and can offer wisdom, not control.
✔ Trusted Friends – The ones who listen without judgment and support you no matter what.
✔ Inner Circle – A small, select group of people who truly know you and want what’s best for you.
These are the voices that deserve your attention. These are the people who help you move forward without planting seeds of doubt, frustration, or regret.
The decisions you make shape your life. And when you make them with clarity, confidence, and the right support, you position yourself exactly where you deserve to be—in the front-row of your own life. So, the next time you’re faced with a big decision, ask yourself:
👉 Who am I listening to?
👉 Are they guiding me or controlling me?
👉 Do I trust them with my future?
Surround yourself with the right people. Seek advice from those you trust. Ignore the noise of unsolicited opinions. And watch how your life unfolds with purpose, passion, and direction.
Here’s to making bold decisions with clarity and confidence—because that’s how you live life in the front-row.
Your Head Usher,
Marilyn
